How To Be More Attractive – 7 Secrets To Be Physically Attractive For Men
I trained hundreds of men, and one of the main reasons for them starting the gym is being hotter.
And I absolutely don’t blame them.
Being physically attractive indeed has multiple benefits.
From getting promoted faster, having a relationship with that girl that you want to getting more Instagram likes.
Okay the last one is quite a millenial thing, but you get the point.
If we agree to it or not, most human beings are very superficial.
While being attractive definitely shouldn’t only be reduced to the physical, Patrick Bateman in American Psycho is definitely very attractive, but his actions make him ugly again.
Our appearance is nonetheless crucially important.
And the question is: Why not? We live once. Why not be the most attractive versions of ourselves that we can be?
Today I want to tell you 7 secrets to be more physically attractive.
While following these tactics won’t make you a perfect ten, there are physical features that we can’t directly control, like height, facial shape or age.
It’s again not about comparing ourselves to others to unhealthy levels, it’s about being our best.
Most people think that beauty standards are heavily influenced by the evil marketing of beauty products.
This is only partially true.
Beauty products and the combined marketing have been created in the first place to satisfy our beauty standards, not to create them.
Most of our beauty standards can be traced far back in our history and have been shaped by millions of years of evolution.
So most of these points following are used in mate selection by women, as an indicator of good DNA which will create healthier offspring.
It’s also used by men of the same group to determine if you are a person worth following, or not.
I recommend the book „The Evolution Of Desire“ if you want to learn more about that part.
For now, just keep that evolutionary part in the back of our mind.
It’s a freaking fact: Having muscles make you more attractive.
It also increases our confidence and gives us a sense of self mastery.
If we’re overweight the first goal should be to lose those excess pounds.
This can also improve our facial features including the jawline.
After we’re on a reasonable body fat percentage, about 15%.
I wouldn’t recommend you going sub 10% as really, women don’t care and maybe even dislike your veins.
In my experience of training hundreds of people, I’ve seen the biggest benefit in focusing on the lats, the shoulders and the chest.
This will help you develop that V-Shape which is seen as heavily attractive.
Good exercises are pull ups, chest press and military press.
In the book 12 rules for life by Jordan Peterson, he talks about having good posture.
Having a great posture is crucial if you’re wanting to compete in the dominance hierarchy.
We can not escape that human pecking order, so we might as well master it.
Having good posture is absolutely crucial if we ever want to compete on that hierarchy.
Having a solid workout routine should be the fundament if you’re looking to better that part of your life.
If we have bad posture, we should start each and every training with pull downs and rows and finish it off with face pulls. Remember to go easy on the chest exercises, as bad posture can also be the cause of too strong male chesticles.
We should never forget that in judging a person’s attractiveness, we use all of our five senses.
A dominant one that we use is smell.
I think we all had that encounter where we met a person that was just smelling so badly, that we barely survived talking to them.
There are a couple things that we can do.
Shower atleast once per day.
Use a deodarant and very important: A perfume, I recommend versace or invictus, I got great compliments using them. Put 2 sprays on your body, one on your chest and one on your wrist and you’re good to go.
Mouth: Brush your teeth twice per day, if you’re drinking coffee then maybe even more. This comes from someone that drank 10 coffees per day as an experiment, the scent of coffee in our mouth is repulsive.
We shall brush our teeth afterwards.
Which brings me to the next point:
If we type in ugly men in google, we can usually find a common denominator.
They all have bad teeth.
I used to have a pretty big gap between my front teeth and it always annoyed me.
I remember one time I was returning from school, I was using the train.
A kid of my school yelled at me through the whole train compartment to come over.
Once I was there he commanded me to show him my teeth, in front of my crush back then.
I did and he responded with: Yes, it’s true. You indeed have ugly teeth.
It was one of those moments that made me realize that teeth are something really important.
It was also the main reasons why I never really smiled in pictures.
But it turned out to be so easy to fix.
When I was about 18 I made an appointment with my dentist.
Which, in an approximately 1 hour long procedure, he added some composit filling to my front teeth and shortened the sides. Similar to repairing a damaged teeth.
When I saw the final product I was enthusiastic.
This was one life-changing moment when I realized that, this has created so much agony for me, so much unhappiness and could’ve been fixed in 1 hour.
This is how we can take action:
We should remember to brush our teeth twice per day,
A gap in your teeth can be fixed with a single composit filling which is really inexpensive.
If we have bigger problems with our teeth we can use invisalign, which are invisible braces, or use veneers, which most celebrities are using.
Veneers are just very expensive and have a quite drastic procedure.
5. Body Hair
Another common denominator in our sophisticated google search of ugly men is body hair.
Most people don’t have the best haircut for their facial shape or don’t aknowledge that they’re balding.
If we’re balding one of the best tactics should be to go for that Jason Statham or Vin Diesel look, so shave it all off.
We also shouldn’t forget to make our beards look decent. What matters is that it looks like it’s been taken care of.
A wild bush looks repelling, a long full beard does not.
What most men forget is to trim our eyebrows. It’s not gay. Every freaking model and celebrity does it.
Go to an arabian barbershop, I have one just nearby, and tell them to trim your eyebrows.
Trust me, it will look great.
I have always been troubled with acne.
Yes, before going vegan and after going vegan.
I got scars on my shoulder and upper back area, because I had such deep cysts.
1 month ago I decided to go to a dermatologist, which prescribed me accutane.
I’m right now mid-treatment and the acne on my face has literally completely gone away.
The only side effect that I have is dry skin and lips. Nothing else.
Again this was a gamechanger. From waking up each and every morning and popping cysts on the side of my nose.
To just waking up, looking in the mirror and feeling great.
It’s normal to have a cyst now and then, but if it’s getting annoying or if you’re getting scars, like in my case, it’s best to visit a dermatologist.
But first, get your diet in order, exercise and shower regularly.
There’s a saying in German called:
Kleider machen Leute.
Which means the clothes you wear shape you as a person.
One of the reasons why Ryan Reynolds is, no homo, very attractive is his style.
You rarely see him without wearing a suit.
In crazy stupid love the first opening scene is showing his shoes, next you see him wearing a red suit.
The most important thing when it comes to clothes is the fit.
Clothes should fit you nicely, especially if you have a trained physique.
Also remember to go for blank clothes.
There’s a huge difference between a blank black t-shirt and a t-shirt with bud spencer on it.
Nothing against bud spencer, but the first t-shirt makes you look like an adult and the next one like a 14 year old boy.
Every man should have a formal style, a blazer or a suit – used when going out or to work.
And a casual style, I recommend a vegan leather jacket, which I wear.
Match the shoes with your belt, I recommend chelseas or boots for the winter season.
Loafers or sneakers for the summer.
If you don’t know where to shop I recommend Zara.
They have a lot of vegan-friendly products and a great fit.
These were the 7 secrets to be more physically attractive as a man.
They are: Muscles, Posture, Perfume, Teeth, Body Hair, Skin & Style.
Being as physically attractive as we can be gives us a lot of benefits, like a better career, love life and overall an increased self worth.